Matching Vibe

Matching vibe is effected by the correct body posture and the correct face expression.

So Focus - matching vibe program - comprises the correction of both; that, in turn, opens the third eye chakra and the crown chakra.

Every guy before learning the TRUTH about attraction thinks that there are some specific set of lines that should be used for various situations with women.

Although having an awesome witty line can be helpful, and although I do teach guys some cool and fun things they can say to women to get a fun conversation rolling, I am absolutely convinced by my own experience and the experience of the hundreds of guys I have observed in my workshops and bootcamps that this stuff is just the icing on the cake.

Don't worry too much about the magic lines. Instead, learn to build your MAGIC PERSONALITY.

As I watch guys' success improve, it's interesting to see how the lines slowly disappear and something more powerful evolves: A stronger, cooler, more fun, more laid back, more MAGIC personality.

The lines they took at the beginning helped give them confidence, helped make them SEEM fun and playful, and validated. But as they grow in their development, the student BECOMES this person, and no longer needs to ACT the part.

I even encourage more advanced students to say the most bizarre things to women as an opener, but to focus on the DELIVERY and the personality and the tone- the overall VIBE behind the words, and it's incredible, the responses are still strong from women.

That's because the women are detecting something far more important than the words themselves.

I've been able to observe the subtleties in hundreds of guys' behaviors as they interact with women. And I can tell you that although having a cool line or comeback or opening sentence is helpful, by far the MOST IMPORTANT THING is the overall AURA you exude.

You ever hear the rule about grammar?
You can break the rules of grammar, but only if you KNOW why the rules are there in the first place.

Well, when it comes to attraction, it's similar, except that it goes like this:
IF YOU'VE TRULY INTEGRATED THE BELIEF SYSTEMS OF A FULLY VALIDATED PERSON, then you don't have to worry about making sure you don't appear needy for validation.

If you TRULY are emotionally independent, if you TRULY are not bogged down with insecurities, if you TRULY have positive goals and a healthy lifestyle, and if you also UNDERSTAND what women go through in terms of them being frustrated with all kinds of dumb-ass guys who only make them feel uncomfortable or make women feel like they are dealing with another woman and not a man, then you will have tons of success with women.
When all this becomes internalized and natural for you, you will CONVEY this through infinite subtleties in your demeanor, your body language, your voice, your sense of humor, your attitude, etc.

The thing is, every guy wants the easy way out. They want to know the magic line. Or they figure "yeah yeah, I'm not needy".

But then you can see how they care so much about even what other GUYS think of them. And for sure what WOMEN think of them.

They even care about other people's approval for super trivial things.

This is all pure validation seeking.
It's not the way of The Man.

How much of what you do right now that is self-destructive is the result of you seeking validation? The greatest influence on most people is the other people they hang out with.

Sometimes, guys will even hold themselves back from success with women because their buddies mock the idea of having to "learn" how attraction works. Of course, those same guys who are mocking him have no clue about women as they guzzle another beer at the poker table. But as long as they have each OTHER'S approval, they get the VALIDATION from each other, and that counts more than anything else.

See, everyone seems to be enslaved to Getting the validation of the folks in their particular environment, even if that environment sucks.

Personally, the ONLY people I want in my circle are upbeat, positive, honest people that encourage each other for success. I actually ENJOY being with these people, I enjoy joking around with them, I enjoy their presence. It's not some enslavement to the validation they provide. We enjoy each other's company, the vibe of positive thinking, and we are not enslaved to validation. The only validation we might enjoy is the validation of other positive people, but we are not enslaved to it.

In my weekend training session for matching vibe, I just correct your body posture and face expression; and the vibe starts matching.

You discover the real physical nature of your body that instantly makes you feel like fully interacting with any and everyone around as a result of undergoing matching vibe program.

The only thing left, then, is to turn this personal discovery into your spontaneity - of body and mind; and the instant matching vibe turns into the lasting matching vibe for life!


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